Baptisms
A Three Way Commitment

The Part of God
God has a part in baptism or it is not a sacrament. It is an invisible grace which makes baptism a sacrament. Through baptism we acknowledge God’s presence from the very beginning and throughout the child’s life. This recognition is one of thanksgiving and creates a deeper awareness of God’s presence in the mystery of this child’s life. Thus, baptism not only creates the awareness of God’s mystery, but invites us to participate in it as the child grows in the presence of God.
The Part of the Faith Community
The Faith Community, which is present during your child’s baptism, makes a commitment to the parent(s). It is for this reason that baptism should be celebrated in the presence of the worshipping faith community. It is only in exceptional circumstances that baptism should be administered outside the Sunday Worship experience.
The faith community gathers with you, to celebrate in the joy and the excitement of participating in the baptism. In the Baptismal service the congregation is asked to pledge their support and care by responding “We do, by the grace of God” in response to:
As a baptized and baptizing people, we commit ourselves to support and uphold ____ within the community of faith by; “receiving ________ into this faith community we promise to support, nurture, and to help in the Christian training of all children under our care. We also commit ourselves to be with them as they worship God, love and serve others in seeking justice and in resisting evil.”
This is to say, that the faith community [the congregation] has indicated to you their intention of responsibility and commitment themselves in the child’s faith development. The faith community also is committed to ensuring that there are teachers, a learning center and a Sunday School curriculum for your child. Some volunteers are not only parents but are also actively engaged in the life and ministry of the faith community.
As a faith community all are relied upon to make the community work. We hope that your faith will guide you to participate in the ministry and life of the congregation when a call is issued for help or leadership.
The Part of the Parents
In order for the Sacrament of Baptism to be meaningful and to encourage the mystery of God’s presence through it, the parents' active participation is necessary. Parents are asked four Faith Questions before the Baptismal Vows are asked:
Profession of Faith in God:
“Do you believe in God, who has created and is creating, who has come in Jesus, the Word made Flesh, to reconcile and make new, and who works in us and others by the Spirit?
Commitment to seek Justice and Resist Evil:
“Desiring freedom of new life in Christ, do you seek to resist evil, and to live in love and justice?
Commitment to follow the way of Christ:
Will you proclaim Jesus crucified and risen, in your words and actions?
Commitment to the Mission and Ministry of the Church:
“Will you join with the people in this faith community to celebrate God’s presence, to share in the life, work and ministry of Christ to others?
Baptismal Vows:
Baptism is an important step in your child’s faith journey.
Will you share your faith with _____ growing with them in faith, hope, and love?
And will you encourage them to take their place in the mission and ministry in Christ’s faith community when they are ready to do so?
As part of this Three Way Commitment, each parent must decide what these faith questions mean to them ‘AND HOW WILL YOU TAKE AN ACTIVE PART IN THE CHRISTIAN TRAINING OF YOUR CHILD(REN)? Discussion to explore this will transpire during the minister’s visit prior to Baptism.
As a faith community, we desire you to consider that, “IF YOU OR YOUR CHILD[REN] HAVE NO INTENTION OF HAVING AN AFFILIATION WITH THE FAITH COMMUNITY, THEN YOU SHOULD RECONSIDER YOUR REQUEST FOR BAPTIZING YOUR CHILD(REN). Baptism can never attain its full significance and meaning when any one of these Three Parties fail in their commitment to one another. We are assured that God will not fail us: we must take care that we make every attempt to do the same.
Further Questions Parents can reflect upon in helping you decide whether to baptize their child(ren).
Why is baptism important in your view that you desire this sacrament for your child(ren)?
If you do not already have an active relationship with the Faith Community, will you?
If not, why would you impose such a rite upon your child if you do not believe in or are unwilling to become active in the congregation’s life and ministry of Christ to support your child(ren)’s faith and spiritual development?
For more information about Baptisms at Lansing please call 416-221-1722 or email us at lansingunited@lansingchurch.com
A Three Way Commitment
